Yes, and sometimes you are the Mad Hatter. Speaking of the Mad Hatter, my daugher went to a halloween party last year dressed as the Mad Hatter, with a big hat and a very short skirt and high heels and came out with a boyfriend. Well, it didn't last. She took a semester abroad in New Zealand. When she came back, he told her he was engaged to someone else, but she could be his secret girlfriend. Funny, that wasn't the role she was interested in. So he never got the bottle of Courvoisier made in Fiji that she carried halfway around the world to give him. I look forward to seeing who she does bestow it upon. In the meantime, it and her dog reside with me.