My older daughter is 11, so the age gap between the two is pretty wide. My oldest literally wished upon a star to have a sister, but when she got one, she was pretty disgusted. "I didn't wish for such a YOUNG one," says she.
Yes, my whole life is sort of Alice in Wonderland right now. H is the caterpillar smoking a hookah.
That's such a shame about your first wife. I wish there were some kind of program that could really reach these people so far gone on drugs. It's hard to see all that potential--well, wasted.
Yes, and sometimes you are the Mad Hatter. Speaking of the Mad Hatter, my daugher went to a halloween party last year dressed as the Mad Hatter, with a big hat and a very short skirt and high heels and came out with a boyfriend. Well, it didn't last. She took a semester abroad in New Zealand. When she came back, he told her he was engaged to someone else, but she could be his secret girlfriend. Funny, that wasn't the role she was interested in. So he never got the bottle of Courvoisier made in Fiji that she carried halfway around the world to give him. I look forward to seeing who she does bestow it upon. In the meantime, it and her dog reside with me.
Yeah, and he wasn't even married yet while trying to set up that arrangement! I'm just glad that she wasn't the girl he was engaged to. Poor thing, she's probably on the board here somewhere trying to figure out what she did wrong.
Good morning all... didn't even see H last night, He had a late estimate up north then went to dinner with his friend that he was with. Ya think he'd want to race home and see us, but sometimes i really think he chooses work over us.. he'd rather not be here, and sometimes I'd rather him not be here either. Go figure. But it is getting old. I have no companionship with him, although I talk to him a lot during the day, its only about work and business (I do stuff for the business) but as far as stuff going on with us and the kids... well i should just say us he's really not interested, unless its got to do with sex that is...
I guess I should just shutup and deal because I couldn't do anything to disrupt the kids, and because I am a SAHM how would I support us. I worked for 11 years before I had kids, had my own money and bank account, now everything is in one, but I do feel like its just his, and he will now and then throw it in my face, which leads me to the fact that sometimes I feel trapped.
Ok just venting out loud..
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
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HEy tal, Glad ta hear ya vent. Being a SAHM is allot of work. Don’t put yourself down. I am basically a go to work and then SAHD. It's 4 am here. I will work until about 12:30 1:00 pm then go home and take care of my son. MY W gets up about 8 am takes son to day care by 9 am and goes to work. Gets home about 7-8 pm. By that time I have already picked up my son, taken him to baseball practice, helped him with his Homework, fixed him dinner, and cleaned the house, clothes and dishes all before she gets home. Husband
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