Hi Mark,

Just catching up on some sitchs and want you to know I'm rooting for you. When I go on bike rides i turn up the mp3 player and get into music, everyone is different, you know what works for you.
The 'lovingly detachment' I dont remember in the book but, I expected to feel that way even before I read your sitch, after my w meets om. I just wonder what she will be like after she returns.
Did your w seem the same or different? after her returned


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt