What changed is that I figured that while I am away- without contact he has a week to mull over what I've said- To truly be without me, no contact, no calls, no emails, nothing for 8 days.
If I wait, then I feel like I've sprung it on him and now I'm home after thinking and he has to all of a sudden be put on the spot.
Does that make sense?
Plus in the past week, we've seen each other 3 times, and he's been an ass all three times.
Tonight no difference. I stopped by H's house and was making small talk while I waited for the kids to get their things together for the trip. Small talk led to the Harry Potter book party tomorrow that the kids and I are going to in order to get our book. That led H to inform me that he read the ending on line and then proceeded to tell me who dies. Such an ass. I got up, and walked out of the house, closed the door behind me and drove away (with the kids of course). H called twice and I ignored the phone both times.
I am tired of dealing with his decisions to be an inconsiderate ass and it's time I've should him that over the 2 years I have changed and instead of internalizing things, I am going to be forth right and tell him.
It's his choice to be an ass and it's my choice to let him know before I go that I"ve had enough and will not be sticking around for added shows.
