DB, I agree with Sara! Hearing "I love you" from someone who hasn't said it, and has said ILYBINILWY has to be a good sign. When I read your posts I can sense the acceptance you seem to have for where things are right now and what you have to do to change them. Your words almost come across as serene - it must really be coming across in your external PMA as well.

I'll definitely be checking in to see what the next few days bring! Here's hoping for more baby steps and limited backslides \:\)


Me: 28
H: 29
Married 5 yrs
Two sweet and ornery little ones 4 and 2.5

"Listen now, hear me later"