Thanks, Sara.

You're right. Thanks for the sanity check. It's just after 3 solid months of a large, thick wall that I've been banging my head against, the recent kindness and looseness from my W have me confused and not wanting to build up too much hope.

I guess I'm reminded of something I read somewhere, the door to our hearts open out and you can't get in by pushing, they have to be opened by the other person from the inside. Maybe it is opening a crack. Maybe there's something to this DBing stuff after all

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.