When we finally do sit down and have these really good conversations/discussions a lot of things get cleared up and we both walk away feeling much better about ourselves, each other and our relationship. Funny the two really good discussions we've had have come after discussions about our separation agreement. Also both times she's opened up a great deal and felt good about it. Now I wish she could look at it like that and realize when she's open, honest and we have good sound discussions and not overly emotional ones things get better. I hope out of all of this she can realize it's OK to open up and express your true feelings, thoughts, hopes, anger, fears, wants and wishes. That bottling them up does no good.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06