I have just read back through this whole thread , something I would encourage anyone do and that is to go back through thier own threads.
A lot of water has passed under the bridge in a short time. Its interesting to see the change in W over the last 3 weeks. She started out agonising about leaving. Made the decision and moved , at first it was like a big adventure , she seemed a lot happier and was getting involved in family stuff. As the days have gone on ( and its only been 2 weeks) she has grown unhappier and is probably as troubled now as I have ever seen her. I am thinking her unhappyness has followed her and her attempt at exorcising the perceived source of that unhappyness (me) has not worked too well.
The moral of the story is that we should all be careful about was we wish for , just incase we get it.
