well, legally, I'm thinking most of it won't matter. In OK and I think it's the same in many states, whatever comes after you are M is 50/50 period. If it was before, then I think you each keep what was yours. the 401K would seem a little different though.
I'm thinking that those are all good questions and info for the L. Just tell them that your sitch financially, and that you are not wanting a D, but your H may end up filing for it and you want to protect yourself in case that happens. What should you do, and what should you not do? for instance move out of the house. I'm thinking would be a bad move for you. Except the house sitting, that would be a great excuse to step away for a little while without seeming strange.
Hey, don't worry about H's weird comments. He seems to always say weird things with an underlying meaning. He really seems to be acting like a child, and children are so unpredictable and can drive you crazy, so don't let him.
hey, just curious, did you make any comment about his outfit washin the car? like, whoo hoo aren't you looking hot-n-sexy today... or just bein playful...or you may just not be feeling up to that kinda stuff right now though.
hey, don't feel bad about the benedryl. at least it's helping you sleep. I'd rather you have sleep than not. Although I'd really love to give you a case of my stuff instead though!
have some good sleep tonight and take care.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
