Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[Dom R]

I'd like to point out, that at this point, you have virtually nothing to lose by the "man up and keep your promises" approach.

The choice is whether you do it in a rage, or calmly and coolly.
and also, what time you approach him to do it.


he didnt seem to react to your rage.
So perhaps, the "nuke" option, ("you're acting like a little girl"), calmly and rationally, might be best.
maybe after a day or two, when his defense from tonight has lowered a bit.

As a side note.. the "when are you getting an apartment", was really dumb, i'm sorry to say.
you cant go hot and cold on him. you cant say "I want you back! I want you to stay!" and then turn around and say "i want you gone" (which is what you said by asking him about the apartment).

It makes you look like a Weak Out of Control, irrational Woman.
Which is exactly the opposite of what he wants. He wants a strong, self-controlled woman.