New Yankee

[hannahsmom]

Hi
Some advice - be careful about calling yourself a "yankee" in the heart of Red Sox Nation - Boston Massachusetts

Seriously - here is some wise advice a friend gave me last Friday that may help
I am bouncing back ever so slowly from my husbands MLC
I am taking it one day at a time and while there was no Pa or Ea and he never left the house - I was sure 6 months ago it was over

Anyway - as I described my husband SLOWLY coming around and my frustration of wanting to know why this happened AND wanting an apology or some assurances that it won;t happen again - my dear friend said - "hey you were patient enough to wait for him to come around - you need to use that same patienec with him while you wait to see why this happened or for an apology "

I tell myself her words now every time I am tempted to grill my husband on what he did to almost blow up our family over a year ago
I need to keep showing patience and GAL and all those things I have been doing these many months
I want it to be like it never happened - and that is impossible
If you come to Boston - I hope it is with a future of happiness for you - Best of luck and welcome