Well he's going to let me go with him to visit his grandmother tomorrow. And as of right now as far as I know he's still going with us out of town. Should be glad right? Not with how he's acting now.
I need to just go and enjoy the soccer games, pool and kids regardless I know. I'll do that. This is just hard some days.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Well he's going to let me go with him to visit his grandmother tomorrow. And as of right now as far as I know he's still going with us out of town. Should be glad right? Not with how he's acting now.
I need to just go and enjoy the soccer games, pool and kids regardless I know. I'll do that. This is just hard some days.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Well he's going to let me go with him to visit his grandmother tomorrow. And as of right now as far as I know he's still going with us out of town. Should be glad right? Not with how he's acting now.
I need to just go and enjoy the soccer games, pool and kids regardless I know. I'll do that. This is just hard some days.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Just BE there. Don't try anything, don't talk about the R if he doesn't want to, just BE in the moment and don't wory about anything else and it'll go fine. Break the negative cycle, let him see that you're doing it, and hope he comes along for the ride.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Apparently I'm having one of those bad days today. I've been doing so well and today it just hit me again. I can distract myself for a little while but there it is in my face again.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
I see you have had an up and down day. Jr is right with everything he posted to you. Just relax and keep that positive attitude. Be their if needed for him, but also realize right now he may not be wanting to show any type of positive emotions at the moment either.
Damn, I wish I could type, the way I think and talk.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Damn, I wish I could type, the way I think and talk.
I wish I could think as calmly as I typed...
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Yeah quiet the rollercoaster today. At an even keel right now so I'm okay. I'm trying really hard to keep that positive going. I imagine I'll be fine once we're at the hospital and this weekend.
He's definitely not showing any emotions now. Well other then misery. Even on the phone I can tell that.
My brain goes faster then my fingers so who knows if what I type makes sense. Easier to just say the words.
Just got done cleaning my couches. Boy were they dirty! Darn kids. Good thing I love them.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
My brain goes faster then my fingers so who knows if what I type makes sense. Easier to just say the words.
That's my problem, my job is probably 90% communication skills, thankfully it is usually verbal. When I sit down here to type, I just can't type the way I am thinking or can say it, so I sometimes I just leave short messages, or just shut-up altogether .
Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Just got done cleaning my couches. Boy were they dirty! Darn kids. Good thing I love them. \:D
Did you find enough coins for dinner???
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I can distract myself for a little while but there it is in my face again.
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