Tired,

Come join the pity party, you have to bring your own towel though.
I too feel like my sitch is pale compared to others here. When I think back I have come a long way. I have my ups and downs. But I have come to a point that I don't trust my W when she does something nice. 2 months ago I was crying and pleading with her to give me a chance, and now I am UN easy about giving her a chance. Your husband posting pictures is as much of a violation of your trust as my W posing for them with the OM. I hurt just as bad. From all of the reading I have done, I have read over and over that Death is actually easier to deal with than what we are.

Hang in there and join the club. This is a great place to vent. Or just ramble on with your thoughts (which I do allot). You have to let it out somewhere. This is a safe place.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know