I don't know what to say except I am sorry for you and your family. I, too, appreciate the fact that you shared such a personal time with Pilar's passing with us. I am deeply touched and know that she is at peace. She will be watching over you.
We love you and miss you. We are here for you if you wish. You still have my email and cell number if you want to talk.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
