D Busted...Now Back Here

[OneWish]

I have been busy GAL and haven't been able to post. I believe in my last post that I informed everyone that I suggested counseling to my W telling her that she has nothing to lose. She was being stubborn and said that she will only after the D process has started. I asked my to go at least 3 times and then she'll have a better idea if this is what she wants. My W texted me two times on Tuesday night asking for our previous counselor's telephone number. I was out with friends and I didn't text her back right away. When I was leaving, I sent my W the counselor's number. My W then texted me back that since we are going to counseling for D3 that our previous counselor doesn't do the type of counseling that we need. Whatever that is. Our previous counselor was a solution focused counselor. My W was given another counselor to contact and she texted me asking if I wanted her to call this other counselor. I wrote back the next morning for her to call this counselor. I haven't heard anything else about this. I am just going to allow her to let me know what is going on. No pressure. She seems to want to set up the counseling. I don't have a problem with that. W has seemed pretty friendly the last few days. She just seems to have her moments when she seems really nice and when R talk is brought up, she gets really upset and talks about the past. I will not have any more R talk unless she brings it up. W did text me today telling me about a sale going on at a department store for my new place. I will see her tomorrow and I am sure everything will be smooth without any problems.