I'm sorry for your loss and happy that you had such a woman for your grandmother. Glad you got to spend time with her. Of course she is proud of you.
Don't stand by my grave and weep, I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond's glint in the snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn's rain. In the soft blush of the morning light I am the swift bird in flight. Don't stand by my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die.