Lissett,

I'm sorry for your loss and happy that you had such a woman for your grandmother. Glad you got to spend time with her. Of course she is proud of you.

Don't stand by my grave and weep,
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond's glint in the snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
In the soft blush of the morning light
I am the swift bird in flight.
Don't stand by my grave and cry,
I am not there,
I did not die.

Unknown Native American Author

My sympathy to you and your family.