max, seriously, wtf is wrong with these people that we chose? H asked me once not long after I found out about the affair, what I expected of him (we had just started counseling, I thought he had ended things). I told him I expected exactly what I had always expected...loyalty, fidelity, and honesty. seriously, is that too much to ask from someone? trust me, I have had moments where yeah, this or that person looked yummy, and H might have been irritating me lately...I believe in the eb and flow of relationships. but when there is the eb, I also believe you just work at it until things are good again, you don't just go out with the tide.
anyway, thanks for the support. we are worth so much more than we get sometimes.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
