Opposite for me. she moved out over a year ago. then, she was completely shut off. wouldnt talk to me. Started talking to me, after months of basically being dark, from her side. But now things getting worse, for various reasons.
I dont think my wife has any plan of how she's going to be happy long -term.. but the selfish, WAW, MLC alien has convinced her, that whatever it might be, it just cant be with me.
Overall, i'm trying to survive, and find fun things to do with my children, and for myself. heck, maybe even have fun
She doesnt seem to be very happy overall. But she's determined to not forgive, and not look back. To continue being selfish, even though our children are the ones most suffering from her selfishness. for the rest of their lives
oh, PS: in some ways, yeah, i think my wife headed towards divorce, when she THOUGHT I was threatening divorce, after being frustrated by her WAW-ishness and refusal to work on our marriage. I actually wasnt.. but she took it as the justification she needed to head in that direction herself. Things quickly imploded after that, and then came move-out day.
Last edited by Dom R; 07/19/0711:01 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
