nope. NOt doing it to scare him. I'm really ready to be done with the whole thing if he can't make a decision. I want a house, a Doctorate, a life. Either he's in it or he's not. He needs to decide.
I hate to push him, but I can't wait forever for him to come to me- and that's what it will be.
I thought with the letter, then I'll be gone for 8 days- no phone, he'll just have himself and time to think about what he really wants. If he still can't decide, then I"m truly ready to be done.
