Sometimes it's difficult to ask someone to do the work, like spending quality time with you. I feel my W doesn't have a need to have anything to do with me at the moment (not out of malice, but because she feels there is nothing there for her), so she would resent such a request. She just wouldn't do it. I guess you feel your H is the same. He seems pretty determined to go and if you ask me he needs a kick up the backside. The question is, how long will we have to wait for changes?
On the subject of trying, right now I feel my wife has not tried at all to revive our R or her feelings, but I keep reading women do try and then give up and men miss the signs. Did I miss them? Some, perhaps, but I feel like she just changed and wants something new. I'm not sure if this works the other way round.
What are your main worries right now? What are your questions? What do you see? What do you feel? Is there anything we can help with?
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
