i drink alchohol sometimes. just very rarely :-)

my situation... hurts.
i thought I was getting through to my wife with an email... she really seemed to have been touched by it. but then she stalled on replying, and stalled on replying.. until the impact wore off. and then it was back to being as stand-off-ish as before. if not worse. it's like the "alien" can lull the suddenly re-awakened caring part of her into inaction for a while, until it can full reestablish control of her again. it's.. sickening, and terrifying.


i fear she's just playing me while she slowly, bit-by-bit, gets all the parts of a final divorce decree in place. Says things that sound positive, but then lies about the most positive stuff.
Some teenytiny positive things, but solely around children. Trying to look on the brighter side of things.... but she lied about something recently, that she claimed she did.. but she didnt. I'm now feeling way more negative about her true intentions, than I would have if she had just said nothing.

ugh.


Last edited by Dom R; 07/19/07 10:21 PM.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle