Right now I realy need to be a as solid and reliable as I can. To give her lots of space but support her in what she is doing, to support the Kids.
That sounds like the wise way to go, Dave. Somehow when you try to help them through it, you get tagged with the negative association.
By just keeping up with the manly strength, & I'm not even saying that in a humorous way, you'll be all the more attracting to her, there's no doubt in my mind as I'm picturing it.
Best,
Sunny
It is harder to GAL when you're doing it all, isn't it!