Olive, I wouldn't listen to your H. Listen to your friends and family. I thanked one of my co-workers for being there for me during this mess, and he said why wouldn't we...I couldn't think of a nicer person. Keep your head up...and don't listen to his stabs at you...he's just trying to make himself feel better for destroying his marriage to a wonderful woman.
awww.. that was nice of that person to tell you that just when you needed it..
I don't listen to him about stuff like that. There was ONE incident after I had been drinking where I was rude to a wairess. Not what I would consider a moment that defines a woman.
I have a 5 very close girlfriends. We are always there for each no matter how much time has passed between conversations or visits. How many people can say that???!
Plus - just last week an x-co-worker told a co-worker of H's how great I was and what a positive impact I had on the organization and on her specifically....
