WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[waw1978]

I will try my best here GD. My sitch hasn't progressed into the D realm (yet) but if it were to get there here are some of things I would love to hear if H were to pitch a "last stand"...

How incredibly sorry he was for his part of the breakdown in our Marriage. That he learned from those mistakes/bad behaviors etc and that he is going to forever strive to be a better person and overcome those short comings. That no matter what happens post D (new R's/another M etc) he would forever think of me as his friend and partner in raising out child. That he respects me and on some level loves me a person even if he is not "in love with me" or vice versa. That the door is open to try again in the future should be timing and circumstance ever be right.

I am still pretty raw with the anger/sadness/depression so I am not sure how helpful that will be. But those are some of things I think I would want to hear.