Forgive me if this was answered already, or if you addressed it specifically, but what are some of the things that your H is doing that makes you think that maybe he is "getting it"? Is he doing something, saying something, a little of both? What are some of the things that he does that are helpful to you and make you less resentful of him? That is the word my W constantly uses, resentment. She has all this resentment towards me. I honestly don't understand where it comes from (there was no abuse, physical or emotional, no addictions, no affair), but I would love to start chipping away at some of it. That is why I am willing to give her space and to wait for her to make a decision, because maybe the space will take away some of the resentment.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
