James Bond, think, James Bond (Just don't mess with anyone else's wife, ala James Bond though ;\) )

My wife hid her purse for months, slept with it next to her, etc. Would leave the kids at her Mom's, made lots of calls when she was at her Mom's to OM. Find OM's wife. I did. Exposure !!!

But, mostly take care of your self. Be cool, calm, in control. It'll drive'em nuts. They still want your attention, but maybe that's part of my "Going Dark/Black, LRT/Plan B" , etc. work.

Really focus on you for now, but, behave !!! Don't have Selfish Demands, Disrespectful Judgments, Angry Outbursts, just chill.

Start to let them wonder what you're up too.

Check this out:
http://survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/divorce/no_contact.asp