It begins ... with a slice of comedy.

[MaxP]

Well it was a strange MC session that ended with us agreeing not to continue to have more sessions as there is no common ground at the moment or overlap/contact that would enable us to work on our issues. I was pretty frustrated at the end of the session. My wife needs time, lots and lots of time. Apparently she spends very little time thinking about us and can promise nothing. So our sitch is left very open ended, no contact for a while (3-4 weeks) at least on R issues. Then we will see what happens and what contact can be established. Very vague.

We went for a quick drink at the end which was good. We talked about the future, about the fact that we each have a chance to grow. She said that she really liked talking to me, it is one of the good things about us. I mentioned that she is a WAW, which she had never heard of. I also talked about my counseling and how I feel so confident (I do, it is really quite amazing). She said she thought my behaviour was almost as if I had been brainwashed (I think in a positive sense). So it was good. Then I asked her a particular question and watched her lie to me and that was too much. So we left the bar shortly after that, said a brief goodbye and I came home.

So Agent99, I don't really know when or even if the cold reality will hit my W. It's going to take a long time if it does and I'm not sure if she would even care enough to do something about our R if it did hit her.

Still, the lack of contact for 3 weeks will get me back on an even keel! It certainly seems to help my mood no end.

Agent99, any news on the hunt for an apartment. How are you coping?

Max