Frustrated and Saddened #2

[stewart10]

Nothing new to report except that she did sleep at home last night. Although she did not get home until 3 am. She went to gym after work.

I have been unsure how to handle situations where I can clearly tell that my W is down and in one of her moods (anxious and uncomfortable). What I have been doing is asking her if she wants to talk about it, she always says no, and then I say that I am always available to talk if she wants. I don't know of any other way to handle the situation.

Today, I asked my W what the plans were for this weekend (I suspect that she has already made plans that do not include me) and she said she was unsure and would have to check. I think a major contributing factor to our problems is the fact that we spent and spend so little time together. I don't think that prolonged periods of time apart is going to strengthen anything that we have. But, she says that she needs her space, so I am going to let her have it. I just think that her space is creating more distance between us. And I don't think anything is going to improve until she sees someone for her IC so that she can address some of her issues.

Also, we have a weekend trip to Baltimore planned for next weekend the 28th(the plans were made back in January before all this started). Not sure how to handle this situation. She has not said anything about it and I have only mentioned it in passing.