Well said Theo...Olive, follow his advice. You will feel better and get your dignity back. I think you need to get good and mad at him and have the whatever attitude. Our H's don't deserve to have a mistress and a great W. If being a great W would make your H end it with OW, it would have happened by now. Just as in my case, I don't think his relationship with OW has anything to do with you not being a good wife...it has to do with him being a selfish, confused @ss. Let him figure it out and you focus on you. Maybe he has it in him to fix himself and turn into a great man...maybe he doesn't. In the meantime, stop bending over backwards for this guy....otherwise, if he comes back, he is going to expect that he can do whatever he wants, and you will bend over backwards for him for the rest of his life. Let's make a pact....you, me, and Yoyo are standing up for ourselves and our lives will get better.
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