Thanks, I feel better, but yes I do know where he lives and the STBXW was very pissed that I took her stuff over there. If he was any kind of real man he would look at those wedding pictures and say "what the hell am I doing? My marriage didn't work, so now I'm going to destroy another!"
That was the first and last time, I'm not going to go ever there again, and besides he's a coward! What kind of man chase married women?
My STBXW had some serious issues within herself and she thinks that someone else is going to solve her problems? She is so mistaken, like you said when the newness of this wears off she’s going to back where she started and wondering what the hell did I do to my marriage and my husband.
This guy was once married and he left his W and now my STBXW is with him. What kind of a foundation for a relationship will they have? How are they going to be able to trust each other? They will have to be with each other 24/7 and we all know where that’s going to lead!
You’re so right, it’s the initial excitement of something new and all the chemical reaction in the brain that a new relationship brings, but you can’t do wrong and not expect it in return. She told me last night that she ask God to forgive her for filing for filing the D and she has repented!? Can you believe that? I told her we are not D yet and that you are out of your mind if you think this is ok with God. I told her that you have to repent and turn away from the D. But she is going to D and then repent! Wow, that got me and this guy is not a Christian like we are, unequally yoked. Her sins are on her head, I am so done with her. I told her that God has reconciled us to himself and he wants people to reconcile. She ask if I wanted her to come home, I told her to go to counseling, seek God and there is a lot of work that you have to do. And of course the took the easy way out and said for me to move on.
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
