Sheer physicality

[MJontheMend]

Due to my recent experiences I was reflecting on the fact that one issue that is less frequently discussed on this BB is sexual compatibility on the basis of sheer physicality. Of course, being one who tends towards living in the "enchanted cottage" of fantasy and monkey-brain sexuality, I have had the tendency to perhaps undervalue this in the past. However, if you consider that sex really is a lot like dancing on some level, there is something beneficial about having a partner with whom you are physically compatible. From the POV of the female this would mean somebody who is a strong frame for you. I think a good deal of the reason why new guy and I have such great sex is simply due to the fact that we are a very well-matched couple physically. I'm 5'9" 169 and quite muscular at the moment and he is around 6'1" , maybe 215 and very, very muscular. Also, we're very much lock and key otherwise. So, it's like we move around from position to position almost effortlessly. I was looking on Wikipedia to see if I could find the real name of the position I described on Chrome's thread and I couldn't find it but I came across a description for a position called The Piledriver and the article said that you would be like an expert porn star if you could do this move. My thought was it would be easy as pie for me to do it with new guy. I guess the first minor point I'm trying to make here is that it's really hard to know all the different things that might add or subtract from anyone's sexual comfort or confidence during an encounter. I guess the second minor point I'm trying to make is that lifting weights will quite possibly improve your sex life - lol. I also had the sort of horrifyingly superficial thought that maybe a lot of the problem with my marital sex life had to do with the fact that he was so naturally skinny and I am so naturally Amazonian that I would have had to be very unhealthily thin for me (my hip bones and ribs are clearly visible and jutting at 139) in order to be as proportionally "pin-down-able" as I am relative to new guy. Of course, the other reason I wouldn't have ever attempted The Piledriver with my 2bx was that he really just wasn't that into f*cking.