Just an update.... the last couple mornings my W has made a point to see me and talk to me, somewhat friendly, in the morning before work, even gave a little hug...I know I am looking too much into things but I can't help but see this as a little confusion on her part.. She has already told me multiple times that she wants to leave, get separated, etc but just no time because of work. And I continue to support her, tell her to do what she feels she needs to but that I want her home and I want her to work with me on US. But being lonely in my own house with her living in a separate bedroom is wearing on me. I definitely GAL and am calm, cool, busy without her. She walks around a bit down, unemotional but that's her deal. Her slight interest in me could be interpreted as her just trying to gage my attitude b/c she may be fearful that I'm going to flip and kick her out. But that's not the DB mode I'm in (yet). I guess I just look at the glass half full. I wish she would just say, "you know what, I've been thinking, I don't want to move out, let's give MC a shot".