Theo.. so scary how you can read right through me..
Have already been thinking a lot about the above. Yes.. am back to assuming it's a full-fledged PA. Told him the other night that he can't go back to being "just friends" anyway since he is so emotionally attached.. At least now he's admitting that leaving our marriage to start a "real" relationship with her is an option. At least he's no longer denying that's what he would do if/when our marriage is over.