Just BE there. Don't try anything, don't talk about the R if he doesn't want to, just BE in the moment and don't wory about anything else and it'll go fine. Break the negative cycle, let him see that you're doing it, and hope he comes along for the ride.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
