Originally Posted By: jak58
How does that happen that we can not tell our spouses these things freely?

My H is not a talker at all. Sometimes I wonder how we even got together because I am social. Now that things are looking good I want to initaite a R talk but hesitate because I know H will be nervous as I know he is trying to just put it behind him and this is how he'll do it. I can not do that. I need to know at least the rough draft on what went through his head and where he is now so that I can go from here and heal.

Do I make any sense?




Makes total sense to me I feel the exact same way. And My W Seems to be like you husband.

Husband

Last edited by husband; 07/19/07 05:34 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know