If my wife were cheating, I'd want her to just come and tell me. If the new guy is so much better than me, go to him! I hope it lasts longer than the initial excitement of new attraction and hormones. That's the thing people don't get, it's just trying to get over boredom. get over the boredom with your SPOUSE! Stop pretending that someone else is going to solve all your problems. Work out your problems with the one you married and agreed to work on these things with! DO IT!
Hope you're doing ok, don't get too confrontational with the OM, you don't want it to come back to haunt you in any way. This is her sin, not yours.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
