As I was driving last night it dawned on me that considering the positives that have been going on, I don't know how W can justify D. In a lot of ways I think she has this idea/vision in her mind and no matter what, rational or not, she's holding on to it for dear life. Even when veterans of this D thing tell her to do otherwise, she is still focused on this idea. I have seen and dealt with so many children of D that I don't know how anyone could do that to their kids. When I was young I told myself I would never do that to my kids, but I guess I can't make decisions for W.
This D thing is such a plague that I want nothing to do with. Our HR manager spends most of her time dealing with employees who have child support, benefit coverage, spousal support.....of those who are D. Even at church activities, people trying to make things better for those children of D. I guess I know that I am doing what I can, W will have to answer for her own actions.
So I guess I'm getting a little tired of having this avalanche hanging over my head. Maybe today I'll get my vent over with and get down off my soap box. I hope the rest of you have some positive to share, I could use it.
