It doesn't really matter. No matter how you look at my sitch, he's a terrible guy. You don't treat people that you care about the way that he has treated me. I'm positive that my H met OW the first week in October for the first time. It was a random meeting in a bar, no prior online relationship. By the first week in November he went and looked at the house that he is currently living in with her. He's pretty stupid...He tried to convince me that we should get divorced without disclosing the affair and even described the house to me that he was "supposedly" going to buy because he "needed to do this for himself...because he never does anything for himself". Through my own detective work, I found out that the deed on this house was only her name...so much for I'm doing for this myself. This is how the conversation went... H: I couldn't buy the house in my name because when we get divorced, I don't want you to be able to take any of it. M: What happens if the D doesn't go through, OW is going to win either way...either she gets you or your money...seems like a win-win sitch for her. H: Why wouldn't the D go through and anyway her and I have an agreement.
Well, here I sit 7 months later and still the D is not finalized...not even close. If anyone wants an example of someone that ran away...my H is the guy. Now, he is sitting 3 hours away from his family crying to them that he is lonely and doesn't know what to do. He should have thought about that before he burnt every bridge that he every built and ran away from his life. They say what goes around comes around. It's around and it is biting him in the @ss. Maybe someday he will realize that he doesn't have any pride left no matter where he lives and will come back to his family and turn into a better man. I'm just not going to be waiting for him.
Last edited by hopeless11; 07/19/0704:15 PM.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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