Yes from what she claims it was one stupid night and I take some comfort (whatever little I can get right now) in that she didn't try to hide this and even that very night was wanting to rush find support with her family and telling them what happened. She knew she had to tell me as soon as possible as well
We are talking and I saw her again yesterday to talk about bills and things we need to get done. we are going to a counselor hopefully early next week and see how it goes from there.
She seems to know and understand I am upset and hurt. She claims she knows what she did is unacceptable and morally wrong. We both are Christians too and had within the past few months had got back to going to church. She says she knows what she has done is against everything with believe in with our faith as well.
There are some general issues (communication for one) that we needed to work on in general but I and impressing on her that what she did is no excuse for any of that. She says she fully realizes that.
I told her again today that we cant act like everything is fine and there isnt something wrong...even though we both still miss being with each other and want things to return to normal.
I pray she means what she says. I've been with her enough years to believe she isnt a bad person. She did make a terrible mistake (that she isnt trying to hide) that is going to take time to work through
