It was his decision to change jobs. He loathed the job he just left. It took him leaving me to get him to find another one.

I've tried reaching out to him. He just doesn't want to talk to me. Now his grandma just came out of surgery and he still doesn't want to open up to me. I've been doing everything I can to be there for him. Problem is that's one of the reasons he's not here now. He didn't feel I was there for him.

Yeah he tends to keep things bottled up. Not working to well for him either. I hate this because I want to be there for him and right now he's pushing me away.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07