Thanks, WAW, for being so candid. My H is, as well, "emotionally D'd" from me (and has been for prolly a year) and I know (now, o/c) that it was to protect himself from further hurt & pain. I truly hope your H can love you for yourself, and see his selfishness for what it is. Truly he has no idea who precariously he (and your M) is sitting (on his pride perch?).

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D