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MrsGGB seems to still be in a "I have sex because it is what you want" mode rather than doing it for herself, which makes it pretty unfulfilling for me. For example, she'll perform oral on me when she senses that I'm getting frustrated with the lack of intimacy, but she will usually not let me do it to her, and more often than not IC is not on her preferred activities list either. Then she gets hurt that I'm disappointed. It's becoming obvious to me that we have some major communications issues to work through, but neither of us seem to be able to get over the hump to get moving on it. Oh well, I'm doing the snoopy dance for you.
You're in a fairly good position, all things considered. Imagine if you went to a job interview and, instead of being turned down flat, they kept bringing you back for more interviews every couple of weeks until you wowed 'em?
That's your situation right now. She's giving you as much as she can, and she's giving you plenty of chances to give her that certain something that she needs to let herself go over the edge.
I can't tell you exactly what that is, but it will unquestionably involve a good dose of playfulness and confidence. Start at her comfort zone, playfully push her boundaries a bit, and see where you end up.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
