Just catching up on your sitch. I posted to you on my thread as well. But wanted to read up on what you were going through. Sorry there is OM in your sitch. I am sure thats difficult. I hope the MC is more productive this time now that W has initiated it.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.