Thanks WAW for your insight. I am planning on going to MC, and I do realize the opportunity in front of me.
And for what its worth, I definitely fell into the trap of feeling her slipping away, so I tried to hold on harder which cycled into a downward spiral. It took me a while to realize how bad I was screwing up with my attemps to "fix" things with my W. But I did get it eventually. So, just hold on, you never know when the switch will flip and your H will "get it"
Steel
M 39, W 35 D7, S5 Friends 18+ Together 11+ Married 8 ILYBINILWY 4/7/07 - A BOMB 4/29/07 Seperated 5/16/07 - D Filed She Moved out 7/1 D Busted 6/15/08