WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[waw1978]

Welcome to DB. Glad you found this site. Folks on here are really great and very supportive.

Sounds like you have been doing a good job DB’ing so far. Great news that your W called you and initiated the request for MC. This is good progress! I would definitely go with her to MC and go with an open mind. Changes do not happen overnight so keep up what you have been doing if its sincere, in time she will know that. But you must stay detached for now. The detachment may be a big part of why you are making progress. You must continue to give her the space she needs. Go to the MC sessions, don’t act overly excited but make sure she knows you are on board. Let her know that you are interested in seeing the MC together and working on your issues. There is a huge difference between being detached and being cold. One is def not the same as the other. I would act as you have been. Obviously your W isn’t seeing this as cold or she would not have reached out and asked you to attend MC with her. This is a great opportunity for the two of you. You are both willing to try so just be patient and don’t rush things. Good luck! Keep us posted with your progress.