Yeah my H has said things about be glad I have a yard and how it sucks living in an apartment.... When this was HIS choice.

I don't know why they leave their stuff behind. I hope it's because whether he KNOWS it or not this isn't what he wants. And it could be they just want to get out and don't care what is left behind. Whatever the thinking is when they walk out they are now sitting somewhere else without their stuff and are now thinking. Who knows what they're thinking but they are thinking. Time and patience as I keep reminding myself.

W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07