Hi WAW. I've been reading through this and have a question for you. I'll give you a quick rundown of my sitch. My WAW dropped the 1st bomb on me 4/7. Everything you've been saying about needing space and being confused about what you want rings true to what she has said. I have given her as much space as I can, considering our D6 & S4. She moved out & I have really GAL and am enjoying the new me that is not relying on her for my happiness. Things have been improving slowly but she had not been much on working on the R and I have not brought it up. She has been away on a trip with the kids for the last 2 weeks
What I would like a little insight on is that she called me the other day and asked if I would be willing to go to counseling with her. Up until now she hasn't really shown much interest in it. I am quite happy that she wants to do this, but am not sure how to react/handle this. I don't want to get overly excited, and to seem to eager and somehow project that all of the changes I have made were temporary but at the same time I don't want to stay so detached that I come across cold or unwilling to try.
Thanks -Steel
Last edited by Steel_Box; 07/19/0701:34 PM.
M 39, W 35 D7, S5 Friends 18+ Together 11+ Married 8 ILYBINILWY 4/7/07 - A BOMB 4/29/07 Seperated 5/16/07 - D Filed She Moved out 7/1 D Busted 6/15/08