Hey Chrome, your post has a happy birthday cake next to it. If it is indeed your birthday, then Happy Birthday!

MrsGGB seems to still be in a "I have sex because it is what you want" mode rather than doing it for herself, which makes it pretty unfulfilling for me. For example, she'll perform oral on me when she senses that I'm getting frustrated with the lack of intimacy, but she will usually not let me do it to her, and more often than not IC is not on her preferred activities list either. Then she gets hurt that I'm disappointed. It's becoming obvious to me that we have some major communications issues to work through, but neither of us seem to be able to get over the hump to get moving on it. Oh well, I'm doing the snoopy dance for you.