There's no doubt. They have all went crazy. Otherwise, how could our spouses keep acting like this knowing they are hurting the people that they care about.
I think that I have become a little quicker-witted during this. On the way in to work today, I was thinking about the way I responded to some comments that were made to me. The new me, responds a little better than the old one.
To a coworker who said that she always liked my H..."so did I". To BIL..."I was willing to give your brother a second chance, he just wasn't man enough to take it"...His response..."You were willing to give him more than a second chance. You'll be better off without him" To my H..."Your ego got us into this mess, and your pride is keeping us from getting out of it" To my H in response to "Why do you want to be with me anyway if I'm such a terrible guy"...my response "I promised for better or worse...and you made the same promise"
Just a few days ago, my H sent me a tm after I asked if he mailed the D papers that said, "yes, why you in a hurry?" I didn't respond, but I wanted to say "No I am not in a hurry...I thought 8 months was long enough for you to be an adulterer."
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