would like some advice 2

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I actually typed this last night but couldnt sent, internet out.

Good evening db'ers,

I saw a lawyer today about my rights. ND is a no fault state. Committing adultery doesn't affect settlement of property or child custody. She can legally leave w/kids if I oppose it, but we would need to go to court right away. She can't throw me out unless I was a threat basically, witch I'm not. I love her and my kids very much.
I forgot to ask if we did have to get a d how long it takes and do we both need a residence with enough bed rooms for our kids(might be tough to afford).

After this app I took d16 to Fargo for wis tooth app. I asked her if she wanted to check out the rock climbing w/me(she also likes extreme things). We where going but d11 was hurt that d16 wasn't going to be back for crazy days, they planned on going together. So we cancelled rock climbing and made a quick stop at the book store.

I bought 'The Five Love Languages' and ordered 'Not Just Friends'. Thanks YoYo I'm on page 40 and it helps. I'm not able to apply it in my r right now looking forward to trying someday. Also I hope that their 'in love' experience doesn't last the standard 2yrs, the books description of this totally describes them right now.

When we where deciding what to do after app my w wanted to know what I had planned, I didn't tell her. Later that night the tv and computer where being used so I went to our room to read. She came up a little later and said the tv was open and asked what i was reading. I didn't tell her until she asked 1 or 2 more times. I told her I spent $30 at bookstore and one is being delivered. She paused and commented that our situation is messed up(I think cause I'm doing the save the r this time). She said that I looked angry and thin and felt bad that I haven't been doing things for myself. I replied 'Maybe I look angry because that's all you concentrate on and I'm thin cause I don't have much of an appetite'.

Well anyway that's where im at right now. I plan on seeing a movie even if its by myself this weekend. Hopefully running back to Fargo to check out rock climbing. Along with kid quality time. maybe fishing the boat is running again.

any comments welcome
thanks
Just remembered something; right when I got home d20, baby and w where in living room where computer is located. Webcam that she purchased to see om was on top of computer. I gave it a little flip and it fell behind desk, I also unplugged usb and flipped it behind desk. My wife looked at me with her jaw open. My d20 said what to her. I walked away. Maybe that's why she thinks I'm angry. To me leaving that on the computer is rubbing it in, Twisting the knife, throwing salt on it. I hope i made my point that I would like a little respect in this crappy sitch.

ok I'm done venting, thanks